Comfort '25
New Dynasty
& Forever
Our Love Story
Her View
Dear Amb. Young Anyanwu,
Let me reverse back.
February 26th 2024, was the best day of the year 2024 for me.
I got to know you from Benita who has been so much of a blessing to me.
I remember it was your birthday that day and my friend (Benita) posted a short video of the both of you on her status, and I was like, "Wow! This guy is cute! Is he single?"
She screenshot my question and put it on her status with a caption, "Amb. Young, over to you." Shortly after, she put up another status with your response, "Tell her I am singularly single."
When she shared your number, I had my doubts. I didn't want to seem cheap or desperate, but after a while, I summoned courage and reached out that same day.
Later at night (around past 3:00 am, Mr. Nightcrawler), you responded. I was overjoyed to say the least. I was happy I got your attention when I woke up to your message in the morning.
I was single and you were SINGLE and that made us compatible.
Interesting, right?
Now, to be honest with you, coming into your life wasn't for a relationship at first. I had the intention to build myself, I wanted to scoop from your knowledge because I felt you would have so much high standards, but little did I know you'll bring out and still bringing out the hidden potentials in me.
We were just talking on phone till the 3rd day in March 2024 (which also happened to be my birthday) I hosted a program, (SWEET SMELLING SAVOR)) and you came very early just to see me for the first time and give me a hug.
That hug!!!!
Wait, I think I'm missing something. Before that day, we've been talking on phone and consistently praying together, and sharing thoughts.
In less than 1 week of meeting you, you were practically guiding me on everything I needed to do for my concert in a few days.
One day, I cried to you when my voice was gone due to stress and my program was by the corner and you recommended that I should take the communion and go to bed that the voice will return and indeed, it did.
What a man!
I remember how I always and still makes you laugh. (I find so much delight in making you laugh, especially when you laugh so hard🤗).
I remember how we'll stay on phone for hours, talking. Even how you break down scriptures to a layman's understanding.
You are indeed a friend. An intentional friend.
Now back to the life changing hug.
That hug was a game changer.
Everything stopped immediately I received that hug that all I wanted was more.
Immediately I knew you were the miracle I needed to change my life and I took my time to position myself for that miracle.
I gave up everything for it and today, here we are.
You covered me on every aspect. You let me ride carefully on your wing. You never deprived me of my happiness.
You're indeed my Miracle.
You're my original (Ezigbo'm)
You're my good gift (Eti eno mmi)
You're my God's gift (Ebun oluwa temi)
Here I am thanking you for everything.
Thank you for loving me.
Thank you for your selflessness.
Thank you for all the bullet you took for us. You are a strong man.
Thank you, my PANACEA.
I'll choose you over and over and over again.
And, I'll always do you Good.
I LOVE YOU ENDLESSLY, FOREVER, TOGETHER.
Yours truly.
Comfort Benson-Ubia
The Young-Anyanwu Dynasty Fundamentals
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Faith
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Family
03
Finance
04
Fitness
Our Friend's Story
Interlude
It was on a Monday.
February 26th, 2024 precisely, which happens to be Pastor Young Anyanwu's birthday.
As a Nigerian who loves celebrating, honouring and catching cruise, I happened to have a particular unaware video of Pastor Young & myself when he gave me a warm hug, that was shot at SHABACH2023 where he was the Compere.
On February 21st, I had uploaded that particular video of myself and Pastor Young wishing him a happy birthday in advance, unknown to me that my darling, Comfort Benson left a message asking if Pastor Young is married. I was unaware due to so many birthday messages as my birthday was also on the 25th, just a day before Pastor Young's birthday.
The message was there until on the 26th when she commented on my status again before I noticed her previous question.
COMFORT: Is He Married?
ME: No
COMFORT: He's my spec yunno.
ME: Do you care for his number? Today is actually is birthday.
COMFORT: Will he be cool with it?
ME: He doesn't bite.
COMFORT: Lol, oyah na.
For her to be rest assured, I had to screenshot her question, and uploaded it on my status which Pastor Young replied to, "Tell her I am singularly single".
COMFORT: Interesting. I've dropped a message anyways. Is he a pastor in your church?
ME: No.
COMFORT: Which Church?
I just forwarded the birthday flyer that The Pillars (Liberation Singles Ministry) did for Pastor Young on his birthday to her.
COMFORT: Thank you.
And that was it, we never talked about it again.
Fast forward to November 26th, the exact day pastor Young broke the beautiful news of his marriage to Comfort to me, I was over the moon.
I was in church that day and I was shouting, but I could not tell anyone why I was shouting because he instructed me that it wasn't time to announce it yet.
Well my status did the expression for me.
Love will always be beautiful. I just couldn't hold the joy I felt that everyone around me knew I was excessively happy.
I couldn't hold back the joy so I had to tell my mom to enable me sleep that night. 😂
God's timing will everly be the best because it is always worth the wait.
I'm grateful to God that I was available and worthy to be used in this fulfillment and I'm glad to be part of this love story #YC2025.
That which God has started, He is faithful and just to perfect.
Your union is blessed.
I love you both.
Benita Benson.
Countdown to our first anniversary
Our Love Story
His View
My darling Comfort Benson-Ubia,
Pheeeewww!
How time flies so quickly, to think that we are getting married already.
I had walked into 2024 almost at the verge of depression, until one day in January 2024, my spiritual father, Bishop Matthew Omodiagbe prophesided in church (although it seemed like a joke) while I was handling a testimony session on the altar, "Pastor Young, your Prepared Wife".
You see, 2024 was declared as our year of "The Prepared Blessing." I remember how the church roared and I knelt down, knowing truly, this was going to be the year, even though I didn't know how.
Just when I decided I was going to rest from searching, trying and failing, you walked into my life and what started as a mere greeting on my birthday has blossomed into such a beautiful love story.
Prior to my birthday, I recall praying fervently for a special birthday gift. I told God to surprise me. I actually had a major international deal in mind, I didn't know God was preparing my forever deal instead.
I still remember Benita asking if I was single like it was yesterday, and my epic response of being "singularly single."
Then your message came in, "Birthday Blessings, MOG. Good evening, sir. God bless you, Pastor sir."
That was it. The beginning of an eternal deal well packaged by God.
The conversation was mutually respectful and then you dropped the flyer of your worship concert.
I was thrilled. A woman who is already walking in her purpose, the kind of things that gets me so easily.
I determined I was going to be there very early because I had another meeting already scheduled for that day prior to meeting you, and I am glad I came and gave you that warm hug as a gift and encouragement.
Shortly after, you broke through the layers of my heart when you sent me that message "Scent of Water 1-3" by Apostle Femi Lazarus. That was the much healing I needed in that phase.
No wonder I have grown so fond of his teachings. Maybe because he remimds me of how we started.
You came in and proved yourself to be a gift truly. I have never been helped and supported like you give it.
You are a gift that never stops giving. You are the best birthday gift I have ever received, and I know it because God only gives good gifts even when we fail and faulter as humans.
Uto'm (My Sweetness).
Ayomikpe (My Joy Is Complete).
The Oriaku of Odozi-Obodo 1 of Young-Anyanwu Dynasty
My Ebony Diamond. My Blackis don't Crackis.
I am grateful for the gift and charm that is you.
Thank you for being so bold to shoot a message at me. I wonder what would have happened if you didn't.
Babe, let's do life together and make this God proud. We have a long journey ahead of us and I am excited already.
I promise to be the father you never had, the teacher you never imagined you'll have, your solid rock, protector and provider.
Like I always say, I am here to love you as Christ loved the church. Christ is my example and I will die to prove it if that is what it takes. I will cover you by all means and take any bullet for you my love.
Please do life with me, babe.
I LOVE YOU ENDLESSLY, TOGETHER, FOREVER TILL ETERNITY.
Your loverboy,
Amb. Young Anyanwu